QUALITY MATTERS MY MOM SAID SO

QUALITY MATTERS MY MOM SAID SO

Can You Really Tell if it is a Quality Piece?

Details matter. You know how you can just tell when something is well made? Or, you can tell when there has been alot of attention put into all of the details?

If a thing’s worth doing, it’s worth doing well.

~Chinese Proverb

A disorganized space filled with clutter adding to the chaos and stress of your life

Let Me Tell You A Story

My mother used to sew all of our clothes when I was young. It was primarily to save money, but it also was a passion of hers. I appreciated her efforts, but it wasn’t until I was an adult that I realized the gift she gave to us.

Not only did she make beautiful things, but she also took the time to make them as perfect as she possibly could. Over and over I would hear her say that the inside matters as much as the outside. We literally could have worn our clothing inside out because of her attention to detail..

Her Wisdom Echoes as I Create

That philosophy has resonated with me since that time. I think it’s a perfect metaphor for how to be as a person, how to live a life, and how to do whatever it is we love to do. For me, I really love to bring it into the pieces that I create.

Details matter. Details show a level of care for the process of creation. Details honor the craft.

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Like Attracts Like

As I continue to navigate my creative journey, I have come across people who also have my mother’s philosophy. Maybe it’s because her words are ingrained in my cells that I vacillate towards these people. Now, their words have also joined my mother’s to echo in my mind as I give attention to whatever is in front of me.

My dear enameling teacher said, “If you’re not going to do it well, why bother.” My amazing silversmithing teacher says, “Take the time to do it right because it matters.” I carry these words in my heart and let them cloak the process as I create each piece.

create a sacred space to welcome creativity.

Giving Myself a Break

If I find I’m tired, or am struggling, I’ve learned to put the work away for another day. If I want to skip a step because (again I’m tired), I stop and put it away. The wisdom of these women have reinforced the idea that creating a piece with every step being the most important has led me to care even more about the beauty I bring into the world.

Everything Matters

The backs of my work matter to me as much as the front (like my mom said). The details are added with love. I feel like it is a gift from me to the person wearing a piece – from my heart to theirs.

I hope that the wisdom of these women can resonate with you like it did with me.

Here are a few pieces (front and back) for you to see. Click on the image to claim one as yours

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The All-Seeing Lotus Hamsa Enamel Trinket Dish on an altar
Raven's Secrets Unveiled Enamel Trinket Dish
WEAR THE GOOD JEWELRY

WEAR THE GOOD JEWELRY

Are we supposed to save the good stuff?

When I was young, I noticed that my mom would buy things for herself but not use them. She would save them so she could have something nice for some future point in time. At the time, I thought it was odd because when I got new things, I wore them as soon as I got home!

The saddest summary of a life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.

~Louis E. Boone

Wearing the good jewelry while hiking in the snow

Bad Patterns Carried Forward

Fast forward to adulthood where I discovered I needed to pursue a creative passion. I started watercoloring. I got my supplies and bought me some “good” paper. For those of you who are curious, the Arches brand is known for being “good” and what great watercolorists use (or so I was told).

I didn’t think I was skilled enough to use the “good” paper. I worked at my skill and created on anything but the good paper. Fast forward some more where I decided to pursue my ultimate passion of enameling. I set my brushes aside and pursued this passion with a fervor. Meanwhile, the “good” paper sat untouched in it’s cellophane package. I kept it for many more years thinking that one day, I’d be inspired and skilled enough to paint the masterpiece that the good paper deserved.

Don't Wait another day, get it out of the vault
Where it wherever you are

And I Waited Too Long

Well, guess what, I just recently donated the good paper to a local high school art department. I never even opened the paper. I never even dare try. It was at that moment that I realized that keeping things in such a sacred position meant that I would never be good enough to utilize them. It was a ridiculous way of thinking.

Everything is Sacred and Nothing is Sacred

I now treat all of the materials I use as sacred yet I also treat my muse as sacred and if she wants to use the “good” materials, we use them. If we ruin a creation (which we have), we chalk it up to a learning experience. But I no longer hold anything so sacred that my life will pass me by while it is still in the cellophane wrapper.

Finally Free

Finally, I feel the same way about wearing the “good” jewelry. In all honesty, I rarely (if ever) go to events that warrant wearing “good” jewelry. But, at the same time, I love good jewelry. )For me, good jewelry is artful and well made with quality materials.)

I wear the “good” jewelry to Pilates, grocery shopping, hiking, snowshoeing, and just laying around reading a book. I wear it with shorts and tank tops as well as dresses and slacks. I wear it to coffee shops and fancy eating establishments. I don’t wait. I don’t save it for that perfect moment. Follow the below links to purchase

Are You Free?

Have you ever done something like this? I’d love to hear about it. I also encourage you to wear the good jewelry!!! Life is too short to let it sit in a drawer.

SYMBOLISM OF SKULLS

SYMBOLISM OF SKULLS

Impermanence and Life Cycles

When envisioning a skull, our immediate association typically veers towards mortality and the transient nature of existence. However, skulls, when transformed into artistic creations, take on a profound symbolism. In this blog post, we’ll explore the rich tapestry of meaning associated with skulls, especially when meticulously hand painted with vitreous enamel and adorned with 24k gold during the final kiln firing – a process that elevates them to symbols of permanence and enduring elegance.

The true work of art is but a shadow of the divine perfection.”

~Michelangelo

Handpainted Enamel Skulls with 24k Gold Earrings

The Skull as a Symbol

1. Mortality and Transience: Historically, the skull has been a poignant symbol of mortality, an emblem of life’s fleeting essence that compels us to seize the present moment with both hands.

2. Transformation: Across various cultures, skulls symbolize transformation and renewal. They stand as a testament to the cycle of life, death, and the promise of rebirth, suggesting that from death, a fresh chapter emerges.

3. Cycles: Every autumn I’m reminded about the cycles of life. Things that were growing are now laying down to rest. Soon, there will be decay to provide fertilizer for the next cycle

The Role of Gold

Now, let’s delve into how the inclusion of 24k gold in these hand painted enameled skulls to a layer of profound symbolism.

1. Permanence: Gold, renowned for its indestructible beauty, stands as a symbol of permanence. Unyielding to tarnish or corrosion, it embodies that which transcends the flow of time.

2. Alchemical Transformation: In alchemy, gold symbolizes spiritual metamorphosis and enlightenment. When harmonized with the skull, it signifies transcendence from mortality to a quest for elevated wisdom.

3. Unique Beauty: Gold’s rarity and resplendence enhance the beauty of each skull. They cease to be mere symbols and evolve into unique, opulent works of art, individually crafted and rich with meaning.

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Golden flowers in the shape of a crescent moon with a garnet dangle

Embrace Life’s Transcient Nature

In conclusion, the symbolism of skulls transcends the conventional association with mortality. When handpainted with vitreous enamel and graced with 24k gold, they evolve into potent symbols of permanence, transformation, and the ceaseless quest for beauty and wisdom. These handcrafted marvels inspire us to embrace life fully, recognizing its transience while aspiring to the enduring grace symbolized by gold, making them not just adornments, but profound and contemplative works of art.

GET CENTERED USING SYMBOLS

GET CENTERED USING SYMBOLS

How Do Symbols Help with Centering?

What does centering have to do with metaphysical symbols and jewelry you ask? Well, let me explain. Even in my darker periods where it took every ounce of energy to get out of bed to go to work, there was something that would nudge me in this direction. 

A river cuts through rock, not because of its power, but because of its persistence.

~Jim Watkins

Enamel pendant of lotus, moons, and a sun set in sterling silver with hoops and a 14k gold moon bail

Years of Depression had Me Searching

For many years of my younger life, I suffered from depression. Fortunately, there were years of respite between the darker years so it wasn’t a constant experience. 

I might barely be able to focus on the task at hand, yet I would feel compelled to wear a meaningful piece of jewelry. Wearing the piece somehow grounded me. It also provided some kind of hope even though I was feeling despair. It was a mini-lifeline. 

How Symbolic Elements Helped

Why did it work? I’m not really sure. In an odd way, it felt magical to me. At the time I didn’t know anything about metaphysics, guides, astrology or the tarot. There was just a pull in that direction. 

A symbolic piece of jewelry or a gemstone or a piece of ancient art could capture my attention and transport me to another place. The weight of the depression could momentarily lift. A ray of hope could enter my heart. 

Broken heart making space for something new
Golden flowers in the shape of a crescent moon with a garnet dangle

Combining Symbols with Professional Help

I’ll be honest, though, I was also going to therapy, which also played a role in my finally conquering depression. Yet, at the same time, away from therapy, these things would provide me solace and a connection to something that I couldn’t name. 

Blue Enamel eye surrounded by vibrant purple and silver radiating in a sterling silver reversible setting
Mandala Lotus All-Seeing Eye Enamel Trinket Dish Closeup
Black on white face partially covered in 24k gold reversible enamel pendant profile view
CRESCENT MOON AND FOUR ELEMENTS

CRESCENT MOON AND FOUR ELEMENTS

The Crescent Moon and the Four Elements

As the night sky deepens and darkness blankets the world, an ethereal presence emerges, capturing our attention with its delicate glow. The crescent moon, a celestial phenomenon revered by cultures throughout history, has long been associated with various symbolic meanings. In this blog post, we will explore the captivating symbolism of the crescent moon through the lens of the four elements: earth, air, fire, and water.

The moon affects people in other ways, for a beautiful crescent suspended in a twilit sky can stir our hearts.

~Ken Croswell

Black on white face partially covered in 24k gold reversible enamel pendant

Earth: Stability and Grounding

The earth element represents stability, grounding, and the material world. When contemplating the symbolism of the crescent moon in relation to this element, we are reminded of the moon’s steadfast presence in the night sky. Just as the moon influences the tides, it symbolizes our connection to the physical realm. The crescent moon evokes a sense of balance, urging us to find stability amidst life’s ever-changing nature.

Air: Intuition and Creativity

Air is known as the element of intellect, intuition, and communication and is associated with the breath of life. The crescent moon, with its mystical allure, inspires creativity and encourages us to tap into our intuition. Just as the moon’s light pierces through the darkness, the crescent shape symbolizes the unveiling of hidden truths and the power of perception. Embracing the air element, the crescent moon invites us to explore new perspectives and unleash our imaginative potential.

Broken heart making space for something new
Golden flowers in the shape of a crescent moon with a garnet dangle

Fire: Passion and Transformation

Representing passion, energy, and transformation, fire ignites our spirits and drives our desires. The crescent moon, with its radiant glow, evokes the flame within us. It symbolizes the pursuit of our passions and the transformative journey of self-discovery. Like the moon’s waxing and waning phases, the crescent shape mirrors the cycles of our own lives. It reminds us to embrace change and kindle the fire of transformation that lies within.

Water: Emotion and Intuition

The element of water is associated with emotion, intuition, and the ebb and flow of life. The crescent moon’s connection to water is apparent in its influence on the tides, but its symbolism runs deeper. Just as the moon’s reflection shimmers upon the surface of a tranquil lake, the crescent shape represents our emotions and the hidden depths of our subconscious. The moon’s gentle glow reminds us to honor our intuition and navigate the currents of life with emotional intelligence.

Lotus emerging out of a crescent moon

The crescent moon, a mesmerizing symbol suspended in the night sky, carries profound meanings intertwined with the elements of earth, air, fire, and water. It serves as a constant reminder of our connection to the physical realm, the power of perception, the transformative journey of self-discovery, and the importance of emotional intelligence.

Air Crescent Moon Enamel Pendant with Garnet
Golden flowers in the shape of a crescent moon with a garnet dangle

RESILIENCE: EMBRACING BROKENNESS

RESILIENCE: EMBRACING BROKENNESS

The Mended Heart: Embracing Brokenness with Kintsugi

In the journey of life, heartbreak is an inevitable companion. We all experience the shattering of our hearts in different ways and for various reasons. The pain can be excruciating, leaving us feeling broken and lost. However, just as the ancient Japanese art of kintsugi teaches us, there is beauty in the broken. Today, I want to talk about broken hearts, the resilience of the human spirit and the unique paths we take to heal.

Take a shattered heart and rebuild it stronger and more beautiful than it was before.

~Unknown

Broken heart heals differently for everyone

Heartbreak – It’s Individual Yet Universal

Heartbreak knows no boundaries; it affects people from all walks of life. We have all tasted the bitterness of a shattered heart. However, what sets us apart is the way we choose to mend ourselves. Just as no two hearts are the same, our paths to healing diverge. Some find solace in solitude, while others seek comfort in the company of loved ones. Some immerse themselves in creative endeavors, while others embark on spiritual journeys. We may heal differently, but we all share the same desire to move forward and find joy again.

The Journey to Mending Kintsugi Inspired

In the realm of kintsugi, broken ceramics are repaired with gold or silver lacquer, transforming them into objects of remarkable beauty. Similarly, our broken hearts weave their way to healing with the help of friends, family, therapy and time. It is a testament to the strength we gain through our experiences. Our determination to mend the broken pieces of our hearts guides us through the process even if they will never be exactly the same as before. Interestingly, each time my heart breaks, a new pendant signifying the heartbreak is born.

Broken heart making space for something new

Healing Has It’s Own Journey

Mending a broken heart is not a linear process, nor is it a destination with a clear endpoint. It is a continuous journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and growth. Each day brings new challenges and triumphs, but with every step forward, we become more resilient and open to love once again. Our hearts, though mended, bear the marks of our past, serving as a testament to our ability to mend and move on.

Mandala Enamel Pendant using Silkscreens for design

As the wire intertwines and secures the fragmented pieces of the pendant, it creates something new, unique, and visually striking. The repaired pendant becomes a tangible reflection of our growth and resilience. The cracks are not concealed; instead, they are illuminated and celebrated. They remind us that the wounds we carry are not signs of weakness but of strength and the capacity to heal.

Order your own Resilience Necklace today. What is your broken heart story? Click on the images below to order (silver or gold)

The All-Seeing Lotus Hamsa Enamel Trinket Dish on an altar
Resilience pendant in white gold with 18k gold wires
YIN YANG OF EMOTIONS

YIN YANG OF EMOTIONS

The Emotional Spectrum

In our complex and ever-changing world, it is all too easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of emotions that life throws our way. From joy to sadness, light to dark, and every shade in between, our emotional spectrum defines our human experience. It is so important that we embrace all sides of our emotions and nurture our well-being.

The ingredients of both darkness and light are equally present in all of us,…The madness of this planet is largely a result of the human being’s difficulty in coming to viruous balance with himself.

~Elizabeth Gilbert

Yin yang symbol finding emotional balance

The Symbolism of Duality

The Yin Yang symbol, with its interlocking black and white halves, represents the interconnectedness of opposing forces. It embodies the idea that within every aspect of life, there exists two sides, each complementing and completing the other. This concept of duality is not limited to external forces; it is deeply ingrained in our emotional landscape as well.

The Dance of Emotions

Emotions are the fabric of our existence, weaving together to create the tapestry of our lives. Our emotions have their light and dark aspects. It took many years for me to realize that I needed to embrace both the highs and lows. It allowed me to open up to a deeper understanding of myself and the world around me.

Woman walking balancing across a log finding balance

Wellness and Wholeness

In the pursuit of wellness, it is crucial to acknowledge that emotional well-being is not synonymous with being constantly happy. It is a holistic journey that encompasses the full spectrum of emotions. It is this duality that inspired The Yin Yang Reversible Pendant because it acts as a tangible reminder to prioritize our emotional well-being by embracing both sides of our emotional coin.

Black on white face partially covered in 24k gold reversible enamel pendant profile view

Day and Night, Happy and Sad

Just as day turns into night and happiness transitions into sadness, life is a continuous cycle of change. It’s so important to acknowledge that every emotion has its place and purpose. It encourages us to lean into our joy and relish the moments of happiness while also granting ourselves permission to experience and process moments of sadness. By accepting the ebb and flow of our emotions, we move closer to a state of balance and wholeness.

Finding Harmony Within

The Yin Yang Reversible Pendant serves as a personal talisman, gently guiding us towards self-reflection and introspection. By embracing our emotional duality, we gain a deeper understanding of our inner selves, fostering personal growth and nurturing our well-being.

It’s imperative to embrace both the light and dark within ourselves, knowing that it is through this harmony that we find true balance and live our lives to the fullest.

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CELEBRATE SMALL WINS WITH THESE IDEAS

CELEBRATE SMALL WINS WITH THESE IDEAS

Do You Celebrate Your Small Wins?

Do you acknowledge your own accomplishments? Have you noticed that you persevered through something that was difficult and came out okay? Remember that you’re worth celebrating?

Celebrate your life, you are your own light.

~ Lailah Gifty Akita

Woman thrilled and celebrating her win of the moment

Celebrating the Early Milestones

Every little milestone that a baby reaches, there is often a little celebration. Parents cheer at first step, a first word, a first smile, a first year….

However, once those firsts are achieved, we begin to take things for granted and quit noticing the small accomplishments. We start depending on holidays to tell us when to celebrate.

Losing the Celebratory Feeling

I’m not really sure how it happened, but as our kids were growing up, we started celebrating anything and everything. We celebrated the end of a school year, finishing a hard test (the grade not being a factor), a store saying yes to carry my jewelry, and finishing hard training runs. These are just a few celebrations that I remember off the top of my head. Are you getting the picture?

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Decide to Honor the Small Wins

At first, it was my idea to celebrate the accomplishment, but eventually the idea was integrated into everyone’s thinking. So, when something noteworthy would happen, the person would say, “I just did such and such” let’s celebrate! Then they would tell us all how they wanted to celebrate and we would!

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Sharing the Tradition with Others

The other day my son’s girlfriend just finished her final and my son told her they needed to celebrate. She loved the concept but didn’t buy into it right away, but my son insisted that they do something special to acknowledge her hard work. They did and her achievement became even more special.

Toot that Horn Loudly

Evidently, it really is up to us to toot our own horns. If we don’t notice that we do well at something, who will? This mindset starts a search for the little things that can become big things. It brings gratitude into your heart.

What do you do to celebrate? Well that’s up to you? What do you love? What do you enjoy? What do you consider a treat? Nature? Coffee (in the sunshine at a boho shop – can you tell that’s one of mine?) A cool piece of jewelry? A trinket for your home? A plant for your garden commemorating the achievement? Can you see, it doesn’t have to be grandiose – just a yay! you did it!

Since I just planted this seed, how are you going to celebrate your next small win? You may even want to treat yourself with one of these pieces. Click on the image to claim one as yours

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CELEBRATE YOURSELF TODAY WITH A TREAT

Here are a few suggestions. Which piece speaks to you?

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