FIND WONDER IN THE ORDINARY

FIND WONDER IN THE ORDINARY

“Extraordinary magic is woven through ordinary life. Look around!.”

~Amy Lee Mercree

We’ve done this walk a million times, we need to go somewhere new. We’ve done this hike a million times, it’s so boring. We’ve gone to this place so many times. And on and on it goes. There’s nothing new to see or do. I’m tired of this same walk. 

MISSING THE MAGIC

This kind of thinking is so common and it sets us up to miss the magic abound us. It is so simple to find magic in new things. It’s why vacations are so great. Everything is a brand new experience. It’s why being around young children can be fun; everything is new to them, so it can let us see the newness through their eyes.

But, what if you can’t go on vacation all of the time? What if there aren’t any young children around you? What if what you do or see is repetitive. How do you find the magic. 

LOOK

Look!!! I have done the same walks and hikes so many times I’ve lost count, but, every single one is different. Things are continually changing even though it’s the same. The sun may filter differently, a new plant may be growing, the water might be rushing more loudly or not at all. Little critters may pop in and out from their homes. Every one of these subtle nuances allow us to experience what we are doing as if it were the first time.

FINDING WONDER IN REPETITIVE TASKS

The same mindset applies to my enameling. Yes, it’s repetitive but every wire placed is different, every color used can appear different, every setting has its own challenges. Even when making two of the exact same piece, they’re different. 

It’s all about looking with childlike wonder. It’s looking for the surprise. It’s about noticing the nuances. If it’s approached with an attitude of “it’s the same ol’ same ol’” then it will look like the same ol’. 

CAN YOU FIND THE WONDER?

How can you find the magic around you?

DARE TO SHINE

DARE TO SHINE

Just keep coming home to yourself, you are the one who you’ve been waiting for.”

~Byron Katie

Do thoughts of not feeling that you are good enough run through your head? Do you continually compare yourself to others? Do you think you don’t measure up? Do you suffer from imposter syndrome? That kind of thinking ruled my life for years and years. Through reprogramming my internal thinking, I’ve slowly discovered those thoughts are false. Here are a few ways I changed my thoughts.

Please note, these tips and tricks are based on my personal experiences. I am not a therapist and am not providing theraputic advice. Please reach out to a professional if you need help.

GRATITUDE

A gratitude journal changed my perspective. At first I thought it was silly and avoided writing in one. Then I thought it would take too much time. Finally I started writing in one right before bed. I would find 5 things for which I was grateful. Some days, I struggled. So, I’d write that I was grateful the day was over. I would write that I was grateful for my bed, or my pillow, or my toothbrush. It didn’t matter, I just found 5 things. As the days progressed, I’d find myself discovering things throughout the day and remembering them so I could write them down in my journal. It was a way to gently nudge negative thinking into a space of gratitude.

JOURNAL

I used to roll my eyes at anybody who told me to journal. I thought it was a waste of time. I thought it wouldn’t be helpful. Finally, someone finally presented good enough reasons for me to start journaling and I’ve never stopped. I never made it into a chore where I had to write every day, but I did write every time I was confused or had an emotion I needed to process. Most of my journaling was done on my computer. Some of my journaling was done with a paintbrush. I let my intuition guide me. I wrote until the emotion was spent. I wrote until a little clarity presented itself. I allowed a stream of consiousness to just flow from my head to my fingers. It helped!

STOP THE COMPARISON GAME

Comparing doesn’t serve mental well-being. Years ago when I ran, a friend told me “there will always be somebody faster than you and somebody slower than you. Just run your own run.” It was such good advice for both running and for living. There will always be someone who is better than you at something and somebody who is worse than you. We have fallen into a trap of comparing bodies, faces, skin, jobs, houses, financial status and everything else and falling short (or being the one on top). But, in any case, comparisons cause stress. Remove yourself from that game and find your own unique qualities. Refer to step one (gratitude).

SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE INFLUENCES

Do you know that story about the frog and boiling water? If you have a frog in a pot of water and slowly turn up the heat, he won’t jump out. But, if you put a frog in a pot of boiling water, he will jump out. I think when you’re surrounded in toxicity, you don’t know that you’re in boiling water. You don’t know it’s bad until you’ve left it. Do the people in your life support you? Do they want the best for you? Do they want you to shine? If not, maybe it’s time to part ways. Leaving toxicity took me a long time, but now that I know differently, I’m so grateful I had the courage to leave.

MOVE MOVE MOVE

When I was depressed, I could barely get myself to work let alone exercise. As I slowly healed my mental state, I started getting enough energy to start walking and exercising. I am a firm believer in movement and the benefits it has for mental well-being. If at all possible, try to move a little. If at all possible, try to get into nature somewhere. Nature and movement truly are the balm that heals.

SHINE

Shine in who you are. Let others see you and celebrate you. You are uniquely you and the world deserves to see the gift that you are.

This enamel is a representation of daring to break those protective walls that we keep around ourselves. The essence revealed beneath that armor shines with beauty (the gold), the eye represents clarity and a willingness to see. It’s a very autobiographical piece and I have a feeling it’s representative of many people’s stories.

If this necklace resonates with you, click on the image to purchase it.

What’s Your Experience?

Do any of these points resonate with you? Where have you learned your most profound lessons?

WHAT IS ENAMEL?

WHAT IS ENAMEL?

“Confidence is not ‘they will like me’, confidence is ‘I’ll be fine if they don’t’”

~Christina Grimmie

I didn’t know!

I speak of enamels as if people know what they are. I’ll admit, the first time I saw one, I had no clue what it was. I just know that I fell in love with it. It’s what started my journey into jewelry making and enameling.

What is it?

Vitreous enamel, or porcelain enamel, or hot enamel is a type of glass fused to metal. It is applied to the surface of the metal and fired at approximately 1400 degrees F. This process is repeated several times to achieve the artist’s vision. Once it cools and hardens, the enamel creates a durable and corrosion-resistant barrier that protects the metal beneath it.

Why do you want it?

In the world of jewelry, vitreous enamel is a popular choice for adding color and design to metal pieces. It allows for a wide range of creativity and can add a unique, eye-catching element to any piece. It’s also a durable option, as the enamel is colorfast meaning it will not fade over time. So next time you’re admiring a beautiful piece of enameled jewelry, you’ll know the process and thought that went into creating it.

HOW TO COMMISSION A PIECE OF JEWELRY

HOW TO COMMISSION A PIECE OF JEWELRY

Do You Dream of Commissioning Jewelry?

Have you ever considered commissioning a piece of jewelry to be made specifically for you? Have you wanted to commission a piece but had no idea where to start? Here are some tips and tricks on assuring you have a wonderful experience and get the piece you want.

Jewelry has the power to be the one little thing that makes you feel unique

~Elizabeth Taylor

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Follow These Simple Steps When Commissioning a Jeweler

  • Get clear on what it is you want. Collect images of pieces that appeal to you.
  • Find a jeweler who works in the style you like. Don’t just hire a jeweler because the said they make jewelry. Hire them because they create pieces that speak to your aesthetic.
  • Be explicit in your vision.

Setting Appropriate Expectations

  • Confirm that the materials that will be used are what you want. Don’t expect the jeweler to work with materials they’ve never used before.
  • Make sure both parties are clear on the size of the finished piece. If you’re commissioning a ring, make sure you know your size. 
  • Get clear on the price for the finished piece.
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Establish Clear Communication

  • Get clear on the timeline. How long will it take once the contract is signed. Make sure both parties agree to the timeline.
  • The jeweler will probably ask for a non-refundable 1/2 down to start and then 1/2 down upon completion. 
  • Some jewelers will share photos while the piece is being made, some won’t. Know what your jeweler will do.
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Can Revisions Be Made

  • In some cases, minor adjustments can be made along the way. First, know if your jeweler will make those revisions before they start the project and secondly, determine how many revisions can be made. Some people don’t allow any while some may allow one or two.

Have A Successful Experience

Consequently, Be sure to follow these steps so the process can be enjoyable for both you and the jeweler. And, then ask for a commissioned piece. There is nothing like having a piece of jewelry make just for you! I know! I’ve had many pieces made for me and I’ve made many for other people! 

If you’re interested in commissioning me to make you a piece, please reach out. Here are some commissions from happy customers.

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Flow chart showing the steps in finding and hiring a jeweler for a custom piece of jewelry.

Have A Successful Experience

Consequently, Be sure to follow these steps so the process can be enjoyable for both you and the jeweler. And, then ask for a commissioned piece. There is nothing like having a piece of jewelry make just for you! I know! I’ve had many pieces made for me and I’ve made many for other people! 

If you’re interested in commissioning me to make you a piece, please reach out. Here are some commissions from happy customers.

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COMMISSION YOURS TODAY

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Enamel pendant of lotus, moons, and a sun set in sterling silver with hoops and a 14k gold moon bail
Enamel Woman in Frame with silver over her eyes
Silver Ganesh with Enameled Purple Lotus and Aqua backdrop

HOW TO CLEAN YOUR ENAMEL JEWELRY

HOW TO CLEAN YOUR ENAMEL JEWELRY

Treat your jewelry with care and it will last a lifetime” ~ Unknown

There is evidence of enamel work dating back to the 3rd millennium BCE in regions like Mesopotamia and Egypt. Clearly, it can last a long time. With a little TLC, your enamel jewelry can be passed down for generations. Just by following these simple instructions to care for your enamel jewelry will keep it shining bright.

How to care for your enamel jewelry

  • Keep it clean. To avoid potential damage from cleaners or abrasives use to lukewarm water, a soft cloth, and something gentle such as hand soap or Dawn dishwashing soap (Dawn is good for removing grease).
  • In the event the setting has tarnished, the most gentle way (especially if there are beads) is to use Dawn dish soap and a soft toothbrush.
  • If there is still built up dirt, make a mixture with soap and some baking soda.
  • And, if it’s still tarnished use vinegar and baking soda (only as a last resort)
  • Avoid lotions and perfumes because they will also tarnish the jewelry quicker.
  • Keep your jewelry in safe locations. Because enamel is glass, it can crack if dropped onto a hard surface. An example would be to storing it in a soft lined jewelry box or in a fabric pouch will help keep it safe from accidental drops with moisture reducing packets. No matter what, silver will oxidize. It’s a matter of minimizing it.
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    6 LESSONS MOTHER NATURE TAUGHT ME

    6 LESSONS MOTHER NATURE TAUGHT ME

    Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better.”

    ~Albert Einstein

    Recently, I’ve been hiking on my own (in a safe location) and listening to the messages nature so graciously gives. As she spoke to me, I realized that her messages translate so beautifully into my daily life and my enameling. Here are some of the things she told me:

    Don’t Consider a Bad Situation a Lifelong Sentence

    Two years ago we had several avalanches due to extreme snowfall. Swaths of trees were decimated. Two years later, it’s only from  the residual debris that we can even tell that there ever was an avalanche. My professional life seems to be a series of mini avalanches. I never experienced a devastating clearing out, however, I did experience dramatic changes. I moved from tech, to crafting, to enameling, to silver smithing, to painting, and now to a combination of all. Interestingly, I allowed each clearing to make space for an unknown new.

    Unknown Path

    If you’ve followed me for awhile, you probably know I absolutely adore portals. I love that they represent the unknown. I love going through them. I feel like they bring enchantment and wonder to my life’s adventure. When I hike, I frequently encounter natural portals. It brings forth that wonder and enchantment. I’ve been fortunate to experience my artistic journey as a series of portals. There’s a sense of wonder and enthusiasm about diving into the unknown. My journey has been filled with twists and turns, but each time I willingly go through a portal, the joy of the new experience is almost palpable.

    Find the Path of Least Resistance

    Both the avalanches and the resulting spring melt illustrate how nature continually follows the path of least resistance. I love spring runoff because it illuminates that point. Water that typically flows down one path may choose an altogether different path simply because it is easier. It doesn’t care that it’s not where it’s “supposed” to go. It goes where it makes the most sense. I’ve had a more difficult time assimilating this truth into my journey. I often resisted the simpler path only to result in frustration. When I finally quit trying to force my path and allowed it to naturally flow, my expression became much more clear.

    Stand in Your Own True Self – Don’t Compare

    I’ve heard this truth time and time again – the trees don’t compare – they stand in their own beauty – they don’t try to be anything they’re not. It’s easy to see that all of these statements are true in nature. Walking on a trail, looking at the various trees or looking on the ground at the fallen leaves, I see the beauty in the differences. Yet, once again, translating this truth to my own personal life or my creative journey took a few (thousand) tries. Now I’m finally owning who I am as an artist and appreciating my own unique voice. I admire and am inspired by so many other artists. I appreciate their voice and approaches often learning from them. However, they are them and I am me and there is room for us all.

    Seasons

    For years, I hated winter because it was dark and cold and I didn’t have as much energy. I hated fall because it led to winter. That meant that I only liked two seasons. Nature shows me that every season has a purpose. We can’t be expanding all of the time, we cannot be operating in full force all of the time. We need to harvest the fruits of our labor. We need to rest to rejuvenate. Releasing things that are no longer needed makes room for new. Resting in stillness allows for revitalization. I now recognize that each season has an important purpose for the whole. Even with my enameling, I recognize a cycle and embrace it now.

    Support One Another

    Walking along, I notice that fallen trees slowly are decomposing. Looking at them as only debris is missing the entire point. Looking closer, I see that they are nourishment for new growth. As I pause to look at plants growing of a fallen tree, I feel a sense of gratitude for the generosity of the fallen tree. It’s such a beautiful reminder to share. It’s how I approach my enameling. People before me have generously shared their knowledge with me. I take that generosity and pay it forward.

    What’s Your Experience?

    Do any of these points resonate with you? Where have you learned your most profound lessons?

    BUY JEWELRY BECAUSE YOU LOVE IT

    BUY JEWELRY BECAUSE YOU LOVE IT

    Let Your Heart Say Yes

    Do you know how to buy jewelry? Are you fearful you might make a wrong selection because you don’t know anything about gemstones?  Your heart knows what it loves, listen to it instead of overthinking your purchase.  

    Life is grey and dull, so you might as well have a little fun when you dress.

    ~Iris Apfel

    Buy Jewelry Because You Love It bust the myth of fine jewelry

    Dispel The Fine Jewelry Myth

    When we think of fine jewelry, our minds often conjure images of mass-produced, generic designs that lack personality and soul. However, this common misconception couldn’t be further from the truth. The real gem lies in hand-crafted one-of-a-kind jewelry, each piece unique and created with a depth of emotion and passion that makes them truly extraordinary.

    In this blog, I want to dispel the myth surrounding fine jewelry and explore the compelling reasons why investing in hand-crafted, one-of-a-kind pieces is the way to go. 

    The Myth of Fine Jewelry

    Traditional fine jewelry, often produced on a large scale, has unfortunately given the term a lackluster reputation. This mass-produced jewelry might feature precious metals and gemstones, but they often lack the personal touch and emotional resonance that makes a piece truly special. These items are often made with efficiency in mind, leading to a sacrifice of the artist’s creative vision and artistic expression.

    As a result, many people find themselves owning pieces that look and feel like countless others, leading to a sense of detachment from their jewelry. 

    Buy Jewelry Because You Love It bust the myth of fine jewelry
    Golden flowers in the shape of a crescent moon with a garnet dangle

    The Real Purpose of Jewelry

    In reality, the only purpose your jewelry serves is to make you feel good. It might make you feel beautiful when you wear it. It might remind you of a cherished moment or someone you love. It might provide a psychological or healing reminder. Or, finally, it might just be a way in which you express yourself. As long as it makes you happy, it serves its purpose.

    Nature reminds us that there is perfection in the imperfection. Perfect diamonds or pearls or precious gemstones are beautiful, yet don’t need to be the only option for jewelry. It is so fulfilling when you choose what speaks to your heart and makes you shine. 

    The Beauty of Hand-Crafted One-of-a-Kind Jewelry

    Hand-crafted one-of-a-kind jewelry, on the other hand, is a revelation of artistry and creativity. Each piece is carefully conceived and brought to life because I pour my heart and soul into the process. The beauty of this kind of jewelry lies not just in its aesthetic appeal, but in the emotional journey it represents. All of the little extra touches including messages on the back are the way I form a connection with the person wearing the piece. 

    The sigil designating I Am Safe peeks through the back of the setting.
    Violet, Blue, Aqua and Purple flower of life mandala earrings
    Celtic Tree of Life Reversible Enamel Pendant in vibrant red, orange, green, purple and blue surrounded by sterling silver
    Black on white face partially covered in 24k gold reversible enamel pendant profile view

    FIND YOUR PERSONAL STYLE

    FIND YOUR PERSONAL STYLE

    Style as a matter of attitude, attitude, attitude, but you have to possess individuality to have an attitude. You can’t be like everybody else and copy what everybody else is doing.

    ~Iris Apfel

    5 ways to find your personal style

    Think of a person who you immediately can say – “that person knows her style.” They know what they like and they put it together so well. How do they do it? Do you feel like you don’t have a personal style? I bet you do but didn’t realize it. Here are some tips on finding your personal style.

    1. Look to your own history: What did you like to wear as a child or teenager? What styles have you always been drawn to? Consider your own past fashion choices and see if there are any patterns or themes that can help define your personal style. What colors are you drawn to?
    2. Think about your lifestyle: Your personal style should be practical and suit your everyday needs. Consider your profession, hobbies, and other activities you participate in when determining what types of clothing and accessories will work best for you.
    3. Experiment with different styles: Don’t be afraid to try out different looks and see what feels comfortable and authentic to you. You may find that you enjoy a more classic, timeless look, or that you prefer something more edgy and contemporary.
    4. Take inspiration from others: It’s okay to look to others for inspiration, but be sure to put your own spin on things and make the style your own. Consider your own body type, skin tone, and other personal characteristics when adapting a look from someone else.
    5. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes: It’s natural to make fashion mistakes as you experiment with different styles. Don’t let this discourage you – instead, use it as an opportunity to learn and grow.

    Remember that personal style is an ongoing process and it’s okay to make changes and try new things as you go. Your jewelry choices can reflect your personal preferences.

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