The Mended Heart: Embracing Brokenness

The Mended Heart: Embracing Brokenness

by | Jun 12, 2023 | Marianne's Musings

The Mended Heart: Embracing Brokenness with Kintsugi

In the journey of life, heartbreak is an inevitable companion. We all experience the shattering of our hearts in different ways and for various reasons. The pain can be excruciating, leaving us feeling broken and lost. However, just as the ancient Japanese art of kintsugi teaches us, there is beauty in the broken. Today, I want to talk about broken hearts, the resilience of the human spirit and the unique paths we take to heal.

“Take a shattered heart and rebuild it stronger and more beautiful than it was before.“

~Unknown

Broken heart heals differently for everyone

Heartbreak – It’s Individual Yet Universal

Heartbreak knows no boundaries; it affects people from all walks of life. We have all tasted the bitterness of a shattered heart. However, what sets us apart is the way we choose to mend ourselves. Just as no two hearts are the same, our paths to healing diverge. Some find solace in solitude, while others seek comfort in the company of loved ones. Some immerse themselves in creative endeavors, while others embark on spiritual journeys. We may heal differently, but we all share the same desire to move forward and find joy again.

The Journey to Mending Kintsugi Inspired

In the realm of kintsugi, broken ceramics are repaired with gold or silver lacquer, transforming them into objects of remarkable beauty. Similarly, our broken hearts weave their way to healing with the help of friends, family, therapy and time. It is a testament to the strength we gain through our experiences. Our determination to mend the broken pieces of our hearts guides us through the process even if they will never be exactly the same as before. Interestingly, each time my heart breaks, a new pendant signifying the heartbreak is born.

Broken heart making space for something new

Healing Has It’s Own Journey

Mending a broken heart is not a linear process, nor is it a destination with a clear endpoint. It is a continuous journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and growth. Each day brings new challenges and triumphs, but with every step forward, we become more resilient and open to love once again. Our hearts, though mended, bear the marks of our past, serving as a testament to our ability to mend and move on.

Mandala Enamel Pendant using Silkscreens for design

As the wire intertwines and secures the fragmented pieces of the pendant, it creates something new, unique, and visually striking. The repaired pendant becomes a tangible reflection of our growth and resilience. The cracks are not concealed; instead, they are illuminated and celebrated. They remind us that the wounds we carry are not signs of weakness but of strength and the capacity to heal.

The All-Seeing Lotus Hamsa Enamel Trinket Dish on an altar
Resilience pendant in white gold with 18k gold wires
A final note, a space in which to heal is a must. You can get my quick reference guide on creating a sacred space when you sign up for my email. Join me in bringing forth beauty into this world.
The Yin Yang of Our Emotional Journey

The Yin Yang of Our Emotional Journey

by | Jun 5, 2023 | Marianne's Musings

The Emotional Spectrum

In our complex and ever-changing world, it is all too easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of emotions that life throws our way. From joy to sadness, light to dark, and every shade in between, our emotional spectrum defines our human experience. It is so important that we embrace all sides of our emotions and nurture our well-being.

“The ingredients of both darkness and light are equally present in all of us,…The madness of this planet is largely a result of the human being’s difficulty in coming to viruous balance with himself.“

~Elizabeth Gilbert

Yin yang symbol finding emotional balance

The Symbolism of Duality

The Yin Yang symbol, with its interlocking black and white halves, represents the interconnectedness of opposing forces. It embodies the idea that within every aspect of life, there exists two sides, each complementing and completing the other. This concept of duality is not limited to external forces; it is deeply ingrained in our emotional landscape as well.

The Dance of Emotions

Emotions are the fabric of our existence, weaving together to create the tapestry of our lives. Our emotions have their light and dark aspects. It took many years for me to realize that I needed to embrace both the highs and lows. It allowed me to open up to a deeper understanding of myself and the world around me.

Woman walking balancing across a log finding balance

Wellness and Wholeness

In the pursuit of wellness, it is crucial to acknowledge that emotional well-being is not synonymous with being constantly happy. It is a holistic journey that encompasses the full spectrum of emotions. It is this duality that inspired The Yin Yang Reversible Pendant because it acts as a tangible reminder to prioritize our emotional well-being by embracing both sides of our emotional coin.
Black on White and White on black, two faces partially covered in 24k gold set in sterling silver as earrings.

Day and Night, Happy and Sad

Just as day turns into night and happiness transitions into sadness, life is a continuous cycle of change. It’s so important to acknowledge that every emotion has its place and purpose. It encourages us to lean into our joy and relish the moments of happiness while also granting ourselves permission to experience and process moments of sadness. By accepting the ebb and flow of our emotions, we move closer to a state of balance and wholeness.

Finding Harmony Within

The Yin Yang Reversible Pendant serves as a personal talisman, gently guiding us towards self-reflection and introspection. By embracing our emotional duality, we gain a deeper understanding of our inner selves, fostering personal growth and nurturing our well-being.

It’s imperative to embrace both the light and dark within ourselves, knowing that it is through this harmony that we find true balance and live our lives to the fullest.

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Black on white face partially covered in 24k gold reversible enamel pendant profile view
White on black face partially covered in 24k gold reversible enamel pendant
Black on White and White on black, two faces partially covered in 24k gold set in sterling silver as earrings.
Having a space in which to acknowledge your emotions is very useful. You can get my quick reference guide on creating a sacred space when you sign up for my email. Join me for my journey.
How to use Silkscreens for Enameling

How to use Silkscreens for Enameling

by | May 21, 2023 | For Makers

Use Silkscreens to Add Interest to your Enamels

Details matter. You can create intricate details in just a few short steps by using silkscreens to layer color with enamel. Follow these quick steps.

“ It’s attention to detail that makes the difference between average and stunning.“

~Francis Atterbury

How to use silkscreens with enamels a silkscreen and an enameled square

Prepare Your Blank

Create a blank by sifting and firing two layers of enamel onto a piece of prepared copper. I often create many blanks at a time and use them when the design mood strikes. That way when I’m designing, I’m ready to go.

How to Use the Silkscreen with Enamels

  • Place enamel on a piece of paper on a flat surface
  • Place 4 coins (or supports as high as the enamel) where the 4 corners of the frame will sit
  • Place the screen on those 4 supports
  • Sprinkle some enamel towards the top of the screen
  • Gently press down on the two top corners with one hand while at the same time 
  • Take a plastic card (like a credit card) and scrape the enamel towards the other end of the screen (only do this once) 
  • Gently lift the screen off the enamel
  • Fire the enamel 
  • Gently dust off the excess enamel from the screen
enameling and silkscreens how to use silkscreens with an image of silkscreens

A Video Demonstration

Start Designing Now

I’ve designed each individual screen. There are so many possibilities with each screen. Here are a few you can choose from. Click on the image to buy yours to start creating.

Mandala Enamel Pendant using Silkscreens for design
The All-Seeing Lotus Hamsa Enamel Trinket Dish on an altar
Raven's Secrets Unveiled Enamel Trinket Dish
A final note, a space in which to create these pieces that honors quality, peacefulness and attention to detail is a must. You can get my quick reference guide on creating a sacred space when you sign up for my email. Join me in bringing forth beauty into this world.
How to Commission A Piece of Jewelry

How to Commission A Piece of Jewelry

by | May 15, 2023 | Marianne's Musings

Do You Dream of Commissioning Jewelry?

Have you ever considered commissioning a piece of jewelry to be made specifically for you? Have you wanted to commission a piece but had no idea where to start? Here are some tips and tricks on assuring you have a wonderful experience and get the piece you want.

“Jewelry has the power to be the one little thing that makes you feel unique“

~Elizabeth Taylor

Woman thrilled and celebrating her win of the moment

Follow These Simple Steps When Commissioning a Jeweler

  • Get clear on what it is you want. Collect images of pieces that appeal to you.
  • Find a jeweler who works in the style you like. Don’t just hire a jeweler because the said they make jewelry. Hire them because they create pieces that speak to your aesthetic.
  • Be explicit in your vision.

Setting Appropriate Expectations

  • Confirm that the materials that will be used are what you want. Don’t expect the jeweler to work with materials they’ve never used before.
  • Make sure both parties are clear on the size of the finished piece. If you’re commissioning a ring, make sure you know your size. 
  • Get clear on the price for the finished piece.
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Establish Clear Communication

  • Get clear on the timeline. How long will it take once the contract is signed. Make sure both parties agree to the timeline.
  • The jeweler will probably ask for a non-refundable 1/2 down to start and then 1/2 down upon completion. 
  • Some jewelers will share photos while the piece is being made, some won’t. Know what your jeweler will do.
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Can Revisions Be Made

  • In some cases, minor adjustments can be made along the way. First, know if your jeweler will make those revisions before they start the project and secondly, determine how many revisions can be made. Some people don’t allow any while some may allow one or two.

Have A Successful Experience

Consequently, Be sure to follow these steps so the process can be enjoyable for both you and the jeweler. And, then ask for a commissioned piece. There is nothing like having a piece of jewelry make just for you! I know! I’ve had many pieces made for me and I’ve made many for other people! 

If you’re interested in commissioning me to make you a piece, please reach out. Here are some commissions from happy customers.

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Flow chart showing the steps in finding and hiring a jeweler for a custom piece of jewelry.

Have A Successful Experience

Consequently, Be sure to follow these steps so the process can be enjoyable for both you and the jeweler. And, then ask for a commissioned piece. There is nothing like having a piece of jewelry make just for you! I know! I’ve had many pieces made for me and I’ve made many for other people! 

If you’re interested in commissioning me to make you a piece, please reach out. Here are some commissions from happy customers.

A woman relaxing in her calm space after she has decluttered
Enamel pendant of lotus, moons, and a sun set in sterling silver with hoops and a 14k gold moon bail
Enamel Woman in Frame with silver over her eyes
Silver Ganesh with Enameled Purple Lotus and Aqua backdrop
Knowing how to care for that special piece of jewelry is a must. Sign up for my email to get your free Enamel Care Guide. Write to me to commission your piece of jewelry.

Ideas for Celebrating the Small Wins

Ideas for Celebrating the Small Wins

by | May 12, 2023 | Marianne's Musings

Do You Celebrate Your Small Wins?

Do you acknowledge your own accomplishments? Have you noticed that you persevered through something that was difficult and came out okay? Remember that you’re worth celebrating?

“Celebrate your life, you are your own light.“

~ Lailah Gifty Akita

Woman thrilled and celebrating her win of the moment

Celebrating the Early Milestones

Every little milestone that a baby reaches, there is often a little celebration. Parents cheer at first step, a first word, a first smile, a first year….

However, once those firsts are achieved, we begin to take things for granted and quit noticing the small accomplishments. We start depending on holidays to tell us when to celebrate.

Losing the Celebratory Feeling

I’m not really sure how it happened, but as our kids were growing up, we started celebrating anything and everything. We celebrated the end of a school year, finishing a hard test (the grade not being a factor), a store saying yes to carry my jewelry, and finishing hard training runs. These are just a few celebrations that I remember off the top of my head. Are you getting the picture?

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Decide to Honor the Small Wins

At first, it was my idea to celebrate the accomplishment, but eventually the idea was integrated into everyone’s thinking. So, when something noteworthy would happen, the person would say, “I just did such and such” let’s celebrate! Then they would tell us all how they wanted to celebrate and we would!

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Sharing the Tradition with Others

The other day my son’s girlfriend just finished her final and my son told her they needed to celebrate. She loved the concept but didn’t buy into it right away, but my son insisted that they do something special to acknowledge her hard work. They did and her achievement became even more special.

Toot that Horn Loudly

Evidently, it really is up to us to toot our own horns. If we don’t notice that we do well at something, who will? This mindset starts a search for the little things that can become big things. It brings gratitude into your heart.

What do you do to celebrate? Well that’s up to you? What do you love? What do you enjoy? What do you consider a treat? Nature? Coffee (in the sunshine at a boho shop – can you tell that’s one of mine?) A cool piece of jewelry? A trinket for your home? A plant for your garden commemorating the achievement? Can you see, it doesn’t have to be grandiose – just a yay! you did it!

Since I just planted this seed, how are you going to celebrate your next small win? You may even want to treat yourself with one of these pieces. Click on the image to claim one as yours

A woman relaxing in her calm space after she has decluttered
Enamel pendant of lotus, moons, and a sun set in sterling silver with hoops and a 14k gold moon bail
Locket with enamel flowers
Sacred Geometry Spiral Goddess Enamel Earrings
Having a space in which to center yourself before, during and after any task can be so useful. You can get my quick reference guide on creating a sacred space when you sign up for my email. Join me in celebrating all of our wins.

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